He malihiniʻoe, he mea mahalo i nā wahiʻikeʻole a me nāʻike hou. Uaʻikeʻoe i kahi e makemakeʻoe e hele a ua hana i kekahi hoʻolālāʻana. Hoʻokahi wale aku mea e hina ai: makemakeʻoe e loaʻa he hoa hele, he mea makemake eʻike i ka honua a loaʻa he kālā pilina e like me kāu.
Pehea e loaʻa ai iāʻoe nā hoa hele hele e makemake e lawe i nā huakaʻi kūloko a mālama no nā hola hoʻomaha nui?
E hōʻoia i kāu mau Kiʻini Kūkaʻi a me ka Holomua Style
Inā makemakeʻoe e hele me kahi kanaka'ē aʻe, ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu mau huakaʻi hele a me ka heleʻana.
Ināʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i kou makemake e hele,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke ho'ākāka i kāu mau huakaʻi hele i nā hoa hele kaʻawale.
Nā koho o ka holoʻana e noʻonoʻo:
Nā lumi o ka lumi: Ke makemake neiʻoe i ka hoʻomaha maikaʻi, nā hale hoʻomaha o nā hōkū o ka hale hōkū a me nā hale hoʻokipa hoʻi ma lalo?
Eʻai ana: makemakeʻoe eʻike i nā hōʻailona hōkū Michelina, nā punahele āpau, nā haleʻaina kapu, a me kaʻai wikiwiki? Makemake aneiʻoe e kuke i kāu meaʻai pono'ī i kahi hale hoʻomaha moe aiʻole ka holomua pono?
Kākaʻikaʻi: He meaʻoluʻoluʻoe i ka laweʻana i nā kaʻa, a iʻoleʻoe makemake e hoʻokele i kāu kaʻa a kaʻahele paha ma ka taxicab? Makemakeʻoe e hele i kahi lōʻihi?
Nānā: ʻO ka hana hea kāu e kūpono ai? ʻO nā Hale Hōʻikeʻike, nā helehelena a me ka heleʻana i waho, nāʻike nui, nā helehelena alakaʻi, nā mokuahi a me nā huakaʻi kūʻaiʻana,ʻo ia wale nō kekahi o nā koho e pono aiʻoe e noʻonoʻo.
E noʻonoʻo i kēia mau koho no ka loaʻaʻana o nā hoa hele hou:
'Ōlelo o ka waha
ʻO kahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e loaʻa ai kahi hoahele hele like e like me ka haʻiʻana aku i nā mea a pau āu eʻike nei e makemakeʻoe e hele, akā ponoʻoe e hele pū meʻoe e pale i nā kumu.
E noi i nā hoaaloha a me nāʻohana e hele i kāuʻikeʻikepili inā hālāwai lāua me kekahi mea e makemake e hele a he hilinaʻi.
ʻO nā kikoena kiʻekiʻe
Ma muli o kahi e noho neiʻoe, hiki i kahi kikoena nui o kāu wahi i kahi manawa e huli ai i kahi hoa hele. Nui nā kikowaena nui e hele nei i nā lā a me nā hoʻomaha o ka hopena o ka lā, akā, ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike i nā wahi iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, hiki iāʻoe ke hālāwai me nā poʻe e hauʻoli nei e hele ma kahi o nā papahana'ē aʻe.
E ho'āʻo i kahi papa hana - e makemakeʻoe e like me ka hiki ke hiki i kāu hele aku - a iʻole kekahi papa moʻomeheu, e like me ke mahalo mele. Hiki paha iāʻoe ke lele i kahi mea hiki ke lilo i hoa hele hele aku.
Nā Hui Hui
Hele nā hui kaiaulu i nāʻano likeʻole. I kekahi manawa ua kapaʻia kēia mau hui he'elina kūkele a he mau papa hoʻomaha no ka mea he pinepine lākou i kekahiʻano o ka lālā e pono ai, e hiki ai ke komo i nā hōʻaiholā a me nā uku. Hiki paha iāʻoe keʻimi i kahi hui kaiaulu ma o kou hale pule, kahi hana, hale waihona puke, a hui paha o nā kula o nā kula. Keʻikeʻoe i kahi hui hui, hiki iāʻoe ke hele i nā huakaʻi me ka hui holokaʻi a iʻole e hoʻolālā i kahi hele kūʻokoʻa me nā hoa hele mai kēlāʻaoʻao.
Kōkua: Inā e nānā anaʻoe i nā pūʻulu hele e hui pū, e maopopo iāʻoe kaʻokoʻa ma waena o kahi hui e hoʻopaʻi i kahi liʻiliʻi ($ 5 a $ 10) ma ka mahina no ka uku a me kahi pā hale hoʻolālā e koi ana i kahi hui no nā $ 10,000. I ka makahiki 2013, ua paʻiʻia kaʻimi i ka hoʻolālāʻana i nā hana kūʻai kūʻai lāʻau e pili ana i kaʻoihana kūʻaiʻoihana , e nānā ana i ka papa hoʻolālā hoʻolālā a me ka uku nui o nā lālā hoʻokipa.
Nā Pūʻulu Kūkākūkā / Kūkākūkā
Mahuahua nui aʻe, huli nā huakaʻi i ka Pūnaewele no ke kōkuaʻana i ka huliʻana i nā hoa hele.
Hiki i ka pūnaewele Meetup.com, no ka laʻanaʻana, eʻae i nā lālā e nānā, hui a hoʻomaka i nā hui i hoʻolaʻaʻia e hele, eʻai a kokoke i nā mea'ē aʻe e pono ai iā lākou. Eia kekahi laʻana, huiʻia kahi hui huiʻi "50+ Singles Travel and Social Group" e hoʻolālā i nā huakaʻi lā, nā hālāwai kaiaulu, nā alakī, nā huakaʻi a me nā kipa i nā hanana kūikawā ma Baltimore. Loaʻa i ka hui he 700 mau lālā. ʻO Tribe.net i nā papa inoa i hoʻonohonohoʻia e pili ana i nāʻano mea likeʻole e pili ana i ka hele; kēlā me kēia hui, aiʻole "kaʻohana," kahi hālāwai e hiki ai i nā lālā ke kūkākūkā i nā mea pili.
E palekana e like me kouʻimi no nā hoa hele
E hana mau i ka hana i ka wā e hōʻike ana i kaʻike pilikino i nā lālā o kahi hui pūnaewele. Maiʻaeʻoe e hālāwai i kahiʻike pūnaewele ma kahi wahi huna; hui mau i ka lehulehu. E hoʻohana i ka maikaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi i kāu mau manaʻo i ka hoʻoholoʻana e komo i kahi hanana hui.
E hālāwai me kekahi hoa noho hoa noho i mua o kaʻaeʻana e kākau i kahi huakaʻi hele.