8 Manaʻo no ka Hoʻokipaʻana iā Hanukkah
He aha ka mea kūpono - a kūponoʻole - e hāʻawi i ka hoaaloha Iudaio aiʻole ka hoa hana no Hanukkah?
Inā piliʻoe i kahi kanaka Iudaio a makemakeʻoe e hāʻawi aku i kona makuahine i kekahi mau mea no nā lā hoʻomaha - aʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake e puhi -ʻo wai nā kulekele piliʻole? Inā hoʻomanaʻo kaʻohana i ka Mele Kalikimaka, aʻo ka hoaaloha maikaʻi a kāu keiki he Iudaio, he aha kāu e loaʻa ai a manawa hea ka manawa kūpono e hāʻawi ai i kahi makanaʻo Hanukkah?
A iʻoleʻoe e hana pū me ka Iudaio, a makemakeʻoe e kiʻi i kahi makana no ka Kalikimaka:ʻoʻoe?
ʻO ka mea iʻikeʻia e pili ana i ka Hanukkah:ʻAʻoleʻo ka Mele Kalikimaka o nā Iudaio
ʻO ka mea mua, he mea nui factoid:ʻO Hanukkahʻaʻoleʻo ia ka "Kalikimaka Iudaio".
He pilikino ka liʻiliʻi Iudaio ia,ʻo ka mea nui loa iʻoi aku ka nui ma nā'ōlelo hoʻomana a ka Iudaio ma mua o ka mele Kalikimaka i nā Karistiano.
ʻO kēlā'ōlelo, ma keʻanoʻoʻAmelika Hui Pūʻia, ua laweʻo Hanukkah i ka nui hāʻawi hāʻawiʻana. No ke aha mai? No ka mea e ulu wale ana ia i ka mahina o Dekemaba, i ka manawa o ka hōʻailona Kalikimaka.
8 Haʻawina a me nā makana o Hanukkah Gift Giving
No kaʻoluʻolu o ka hauʻoli koa, eiaʻewalu mau hana "Dos and Don'ts" no ka hāʻawi makanaʻana a Hanukkah -ʻewalu mau'ōlelo ma ka mahaloʻana i nā pōʻewalu o Hanukkah.
- Mai hāʻawi Hamakua iā Hanukkah. ʻAʻole ka poʻe Iudaio a pau e pili ana i kaʻaiʻana i ka meaʻai. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe New Yorkers e hana. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, e pale i nā'ōhuaʻai e hoʻopiha i nā mea maikaʻi e like me ka puaʻa Kepanī, kūkiko maloʻo maloʻo, hamoa Serrano, hausaʻi Italian toto, he pahu o nā kuki maikaʻi i hoʻonaniʻia e like me Santa, aiʻole ka huaʻaina Kalikimaka. ʻO kekahiʻaoʻao, inā heʻai a kou hoaaloha Iudaio paha a iʻole heʻaina likeʻole no kaʻaiʻole kosher, e ho'āʻo i kahi hōʻailona hōʻailona i ka mea kaulana, hipster-run in Brooklyn i kapaʻiaʻo Traif, me kaʻikeʻole, aia ma kahi kokoke i Hasidic. kaiaulu ma Williamsburg. A iʻole e hiki iāʻoe ke lawe iā lākou i ka Hōʻaika Lūkaʻi makahiki, i hiki iā lākou ke ho'āʻo i nāʻano likeʻole likeʻole.
- Hāʻawi : E hāʻawi i nā puke, nā lole, nā meaʻaʻahu, nā mea e lako ai, nā lako, nā nani, nā makana, nā huakaʻi hele i Paris a me ka mahina, kālā, nā makana o ka manawa e likeʻole me ke keiki hānaiʻole, aiʻole nā haʻawina i ke aloha. No nā makana o kaʻai, e nānā i luna.
- Mai Kapo Makapō: E hele i kēlā mau PJ me ke kumu hoʻohāweʻe Red-a-Green. ʻO nā lauʻeleʻele a me ka'ōmaʻomaʻo. ʻO nāʻulu Hanukkah he uliuli a keʻokeʻo.
- E hāʻawi i kāu hāʻawi manawa i ka manawa hoʻomaha . Inā he makanaʻo Hanukkah, a laila e ho'āʻo e hāʻawi i ka manawa kūpono, ma ka manawa o Hanukkah. He mea paʻakikī kēia - no ka halaʻana o nā lāʻewalu! ʻO ka po hope loaʻo Hanukkah i kēia makahiki?
- Mai hāʻawi i kahi Creche Christmas no Hanukkah. Ma keʻano likeʻole me # 3 ma luna, mai hāʻawiʻoe i ka makana Hanukkah i hoʻokomoʻia me Santas, nā kīʻaha kukui, nā hulu hauʻoli, aiʻole nā lāʻau Kalikimaka. Inā ke alohaʻole ka mea hāʻawi i kāu makana i ka piko kitsch, eʻae i ka hāʻawiʻana i ka hana no ke Kalikimaka me ka lima,ʻoiai ināʻoe e kahakiʻi i ke ala a hiki i Brooklyn mai ka mākele makamae ma Venice.
- E hōʻoiaʻiʻo i nā makana kahiko o Hanukkah, Ināʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike . He wā palekana nō ia e hāʻawi i kahi mea kahiko.
No nā kamaliʻi, like keʻano o nā mea kūʻai kalahala o Kirihimaka ( dreidel ) (he kiko pua nani me nā hua'ōlelo Hebera ma kēlāʻaoʻao kēiaʻaoʻao), aiʻole i nā kī liʻiliʻi i kāpiʻia i loko o ka pepa gula e nānā i nā'āpana.
No nā mākua, e noʻonoʻo i nā kukui manora nani, kaʻaila maikaʻi maikaʻi, aiʻole he puke kuke mea Iudaio. ʻO kēlā'ōlelo, hiki i kāu hoaaloha a hoa paha e makemake i kahi meaʻai, e like me kahi papa kuke i ka Brooklyn Kitchen i kahi puke kahu hipa e hōʻiliʻili ana i ka lepo i loko o ka haleʻo Carroll Gardens.
- Mai pā i kahi makanaʻo Hanukkah no ke kāwiliʻana i ke mele . Eʻae i ka uhiʻana i kahi makana Hanukkah i loko o ka pepa kāwili Kalikimaka; he mau mea make paha nā puke a ua hoʻoponoponoʻia naʻe lākou e ko lākou mau uhi.
Inā kūʻaiʻoe i kahi pepa kāwili, e koho i kahi'ōnaehana maʻamau a iʻole ka hoʻopiliʻana ma kahi kāpena Hanukkah kūikawā (ʻoiai paha hiki ke hoʻopauʻia a hiki i ka wā e wehe aiʻoe, e emi ana ka mea ma mua o ka mea e manaʻo ai.) A iʻole, hele i ka'ōmaʻomaʻo, ka mahele o ka New York Times a iʻole ka pepa kāwiliʻeleʻele mai kāu mau mīkini hope loa mai kāu poʻe hoʻomaʻemaʻe.
E kūʻai i ka kāleʻa makana: kūʻai, hoʻohana a hana i ka kāleka Hanukkah, a hoʻohana i kekahi kālepa kālepa honua-aloha mai kahi aloha likeʻole me UNICEF, akā, no ka ponoʻole, mai hoʻokomo i kahi kāleka Kalikimaka ma kāu makana Hanukkah. A iʻole, e hui pū i kahi kāpena makana Kalikimaka-Hanukkah no nāʻohana hui likeʻole-faith.
- Mai kākauʻoe i kou hoa ma JDate.com no Hanukkah . I ka hopena, inā hoʻokahi wale nō kāu hoaaloha Iudaio, mai kākauʻoe iā ia ma JDate, me ka mea nāna e hāʻawi aku i ka mele mele ma keʻano "he ala hou no ka poʻe Iudaio eʻimi ai i ke aloha." No ke aha mai? No ka mea mālamaʻia kēlā makana i nā mākuahine Iudaio.
Aloha mau lā!
Hoʻoponoponoʻia e Alison Lowenstein